It’s been awhile since I actually wrote anything on here…hmmm…although I have neglected this beloved little corner of my life, I am still so grateful to have this outlet to share my thoughts. Soooo....My sweet little girl is being picked on at school and it is
BREAKING my heart! I am trying not to be biased (she isn’t always sunshine and smiles) but it is hard for me to think of a reason for anyone to be consistently mean to my girl…the girl with the huge, open heart, that thinks of everyone as a friend. Initially I thought it was just catty girl stuff, typical of this age. I counseled her in ways to avoid the confrontation with the
TWO girls, and suggested repeatedly that she play with an endless list of other kids she loves at school (and I know are just as sweet as she is). She is persistent, she is strong willed, she thinks everyone should be friends…and now she comes home crushed
EVERYday. My girl
LOVES school…so much so that her love for learning was listed several times on her recent report card…but this past week, she doesn’t even want to go to school. And, that is when I realized this is a
HUGE problem! I went to the school this morning and discussed the situation with her teacher, explained the tears and the hurtful words, she said she will have it resolved soon. If we have another week like the last few, I will request that Tae not be grouped with the girls for any class activities, especially recess. It is one thing to exclude another child, it happens; they all do it, especially at this age. But, to be intentionally hurtful is not ok. Telling a fellow classmate that everything she says is boring, that you are ignoring her because you don’t care what she has to say, and that you think her ideas and stories are stupid, is unacceptable. It is difficult for me to explain to my 6 year old that sometimes people are just mean. It is not a part of life that I want her to experience at this age, or ever. While some might say the obvious solution is that she will just have to toughen up, I don’t think a thick skin should be part of a 6 year olds day. I just needed to get that off my chest. She's still my baby...please don't hurt her :(
